How the Gospel Can Transform a Marriage (via Justin Taylor)

Gary and Betsy Ricuchi, Love That Lasts: When Marriage Meets Grace (Crossway, 2006), pp. 22-23:

  • Because of the gospel, Christians have become new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17). Therefore, in our marriage, our past does not define us, confine us, or determine our future.
  • Because of the gospel, we are forgiven (Ephesians 1:7). Therefore we can live free of all guilt and condemnation for every sin, and we can trust that God, in his mercy, will be gracious to us.
  • Because of the gospel, we can forgive, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32). Nothing done against us compares to our sin against God. Therefore all offenses, hostility, and bitterness between Christians can be completely forgiven and removed.
  • Because of the gospel, we are accepted by God (Romans 15:7). Therefore we are not dependent on a spouse for who we are or what we need.
  • Because of the gospel, sin’s ruling power over us is broken (Romans 6:6, 14). Therefore we can truly obey all that God calls us to do in our marriage, regardless of any circumstance or situation.
  • Because of the gospel, we have access to God through Christ (Hebrews 4:14-16). Therefore we can at any time take any need in our marriage to the One who can do all things.
  • Because of the gospel, we have hope (Romans 5:1-4). Therefore we can endure any marital difficulty, hardship, or suffering, with the assurance that God is working all to our greatest good (Romans 8:28).
  • Because of the gospel, Christ dwells in us by his Holy Spirit (Galatians 3:13-14). Therefore we are confident that God is always with us and is always at work in our marriage, even when progress is imperceptible (1 Thessalonians 5:23-24).
  • Because of the gospel, we have power to fight and overcome remaining sin, which continues to dwell and war within us (Romans 7:19-21, 24-25; Galatians 5:16-17). This indwelling enemy represents the essence of what is called the doctrine of sin.

These are just a few of the ways the gospel can transform a marriage. Sometimes it’s not easy to live in the reality of these truths. But it is always possible—and not because of our strength or determination, but because of God’s empowering and enabling grace.

How the Gospel Can Transform a Marriage. (Gospel Coalition-Justin Taylor)

4 comentarii (+add yours?)

  1. Gabi Bogdan
    ian. 17, 2011 @ 01:43:36

    I heard someone saying that marriage was instituted by God to teach us how to love a unlovable ( sometimes) person , when everything in us screams against it, marriage makes us get over those difficult moments. Kind of like the love God had for us , when we were yet sinners, he died for us. if your marriage is perfect, God did not put it together 🙂 . Marriage is the institution that God uses the most to bring us to the perfect image of Christ( that’s where we learn patience, forgiveness , love , long suffering, true happines, love of a father/ mother,love for the bride /groom, etc. Everything in life is about Him, we feel hunger so we can know what hunger for God means, we love so we can understand what love for God means, we sleep so we can realize that the world still goes around even when we are sleeping , and so on.

    • rodi
      ian. 17, 2011 @ 08:26:11

      Gabi, that was very well said, and if each one of us were to hold up a mirror to ourselves, we would also say like you ‘that my spouse is a saint’ for loving someone like me; I feel that way too.

  2. Gabi Bogdan
    ian. 17, 2011 @ 02:09:02

    If you don’t believe that, call my wife , she will tell you how she learned to love the unlovable (sometimes) me, she is close to being declared a saint I tell you.. 🙂

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