Preţul mare, dar ascuns, al sexului ocazional in Romania + Raportul National de Sanatate a Copiilor si Tinerilor din Romania

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1 Tesaloniceni 4:3-7

Voia lui Dumnezeu este sfinţirea voastră: să vă feriţi de curvie;
fiecare din voi să ştie să-şi stăpînească vasul în sfinţenie şi cinste,
nu în aprinderea poftei, ca Neamurile, cari nu cunosc pe Dumnezeu.
Nimeni să nu fie cu vicleşug şi cu nedreptate în treburi faţă de fratele său; pentrucă Domnul pedepseşte toate aceste lucruri, după cum v’am spus şi v’am adeverit.
Căci Dumnezeu nu ne -a chemat la necurăţie, ci la sfinţire.

Niste statistici absolut ingrozitoare de la http://www.semneletimpului.ro!

Românii stau îngrijorător de rău la numărul bolnavilor de boli cu transmitere sexuală (BTS). Oficial, un milion de români primesc tratament pentru a scăpa de boli venerice, dar neoficial cifra se ridică la 10 milioane! Atât cei care ştiu că sunt infectaţi, cât şi cei care nu ştiu, continuă să aibă relaţii ocazionale, în medie cu 10 persoane, spun specialiştii.

Conform datelor Organizaţiei Mondiale a Sănătăţii, România se clasează în primele zece locuri de pe continent la incidenţa infecţiilor cu transmitere sexuală.

Pe primul loc în Europa se află infecţia cu Clamydia, care afectează în special femeile, fiind mai frecventă la grupa de vârstă 15-24 de ani şi care, pe termen lung, are impact asupra sănătăţii reproducerii.

Gonoreea, care se situează pe locul al doilea în Europa în ceea ce priveşte BTS, este mai frecventă la bărbaţi şi la grupa de vârstă 15-24 de ani. Afecţiunea dă complicaţii importante şi rezistenţă la antibiotice, iar în urma schimbării comportamentului sexual se regăseşte şi în sfera ORL, aşa numita gonoreee faringiană, a detaliat medicul.

Ce este şi mai îngrijorător este că ţara noastră se află printre cele patru ţări care furnizează 60 % din cazurile de sifilis raportate la nivel european în 2010, alături de Germania, Marea Britanie şi Spania.

Cel mai des, victime sunt persoanele active, din zone urbane, cu venituri medii, care-şi duc boala pe picioare. Aceştia sunt adulţi care nu-şi fac analizele şi nu folosesc mijloace de protecţie, dar care află foarte târziu că sunt purtători, fie la analize de rutină, fie la analizele premaritale. Cea mai spectaculoasă creştere a îmbolnăvirilor se înregistrează pe grupa de vârstă 15 – 24 de ani.

Cel mai scump preţ de plătit

Din păcate, rata rapidă a transmiterii şi, implicit, numărul mare de bolnavi care nici nu ştiu că sunt infectaţi, nu este cea mai gravă problemă.

Cu toate că unele boli cu transmitere sexuală nu au simptome pe termen lung, efectele pot fi dramatice. Mulţi bolnavi s-au trezit cu diferite tipuri de cancer, în timp ce multe cupluri au aflat prea târziu de ce nu pot avea copii.

Nimeni nu ştie câte cupluri infertile există în România – nimeni nu a avut curajul să afle. Pentru a face un copil, aceste cupluri urmează tratamente îndelungate, dureroase şi costisitoare care de multe ori se termină cu eşecuri greu de suportat. Tratamentele la care sunt supuse femeile le pun în pericol sănătatea, iar şansele de a rămâne însărcinate prin inseminare artificială sunt de 10-15%. Există femei care au ajuns la 13 proceduri de fertilizare in vitro, fără niciun rezultat.

În plus, în România infertilitatea nu e considerată boală, iar tratamentele costă mii de euro. În aceste condiţii, multe dintre femei abandonează după prima procedură nereuşită.

Pentru a nu se ajunge aici, România are nevoie de o îmbunătăţire a activităţilor de educare şi de diagnostic pentru a depista cât mai multe din cazuri şi a le trata, este de părere Daniela Piţigoi, vicepreşedintele Societăţii Române de Epidemiologie. Pentru unii însă aceste rezolvări vor veni prea târziu.

Raportul National de Sanatate din Romania

Urmatoarele statistice sunt din Raportul National de Sanatate din Romania 2011 (Cel mai recent an raportat). Diagramele postate sunt preluate din acest raport. Cititi-l in intregime aici – http://www.insp.gov.ro/cnepss/wp-content/themes/PressBlue/pdf/Raport-2011.pdf

Statistice din Raportul Copiilor Romania 2011

România se plasează pe locul patru în descrescătoare a frecvenţei elevilor de 15 ani care au avut raporturi sexuale, frecvenţe înregistrate într-un şir de 36 state.  (Albastru deschis= baieti; albastru inchis= fete)

Statistice din Raportul Copiilor Romania 2011 (2)

România se plasează pe locul doi în ordinea descrescătoare a frecvenţelor elevilor de 13 ani care au început să consume alcool înaintea vîrstei de 13 ani, frecvenţe înregistrate într-un şir de 38 state.

Sursa: Health Behavior in Scool-Aged Children International Report from 2009/2010 Survey (WHO)

Rezultate YRBSS

Patru din zece elevi sunt sexual activi.

Abordarea sănătăţii sexuale a tinerilor prin creşterea angajamentului acestora pentru sexul sigur a devenit o preocupare majoră în multe ţări. Cu toate acestea, încă persistă diferenţe mari între ţările UE în ceea ce priveşte factorii legaţi de sănătatea sexuală şi a reproducerii: diferenţe culturale şi religioase, politici diferite în probleme de planificare familială, accesibilitate şi adresabilitate a contracepţiei şi avortului, politici diferite referitoare la servicii prietenoase pentru tineri şi diferenţe în sistemele educaţionale în abordarea problemelor referitoare la sex. Aceste diferenţe, între altele, explică discrepanţele mari observate, de ex. în nivelele utilizării prezervativelor şi pilulelor contraceptive, rata avorturilor şi sarcinilor la adolescente şi numărul infecţiilor cu transmitere sexuală.

Global, sănătatea reproducerii contribuie la starea generală de sănătate şi bunăstare a unei populaţii. Chiar dacă în multe ţări vârsta medie la primul contact sexual a scăzut, nu au fost observate tendinţe universale de contact sexual precoce. Mai mult, se pare că există o comutare spre mariaj mai tardiv care conduce la rate mai ridicate ale sexului premarital. În timp ce profilul de risc se poate schimba, contactele sexuale precoce şi slab protejate rămân de importanţă centrală pentru sănătatea publică.

Iniţierea sexuală precoce poate fi privită ca parte a unor comportamente cu risc intricate care includ consumul de substanţe şi sexul neprotejat. Contactul sexual neprotejat sau insuficient protejat aduce riscul sarcinilor nedorite, avorturilor şi maternităţii precoce. Sarcinile în adolescenţă şi rolul parental precoce pot conduce la nivel educaţional redus, sănătate fizică şi mentală precară, sărăcie şi izolare socială pentru tinerele mame şi copii lor.

Statistice din Raportul Copiilor Romania 2011 (3)

Trei din zece elevi sexual activi au utilizat metode contraceptive la ultimul raport sexual.
Frecvenţa liceenilor sexual activi creşte cu înaintarea în vârstă, dublându-se de la 15 la 18 ani.

CITESTE raportul facand click pe poza – in format pdf 

Statistice din Raportul Copiilor Romania 2011 (4)

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Is a boyfriend’s porn use a reason to call off a marriage? (How porn destroys)

Some advice and an explanation as to how porn impacts a young man and his future wife when they get married. You can listen to the entire podcast here- https://soundcloud.com/askpastorjohn

Is My Boyfriend’s Porn a Marriage Deal-Breaker? (Episode 122):

computer manPorn is destructive to a man’s capacities to love a woman purely for herself. He is training his body to need increasingly different, strange, erotic situations and bodies, and he is making it harder to be content with the real body of the woman that is going to be offered to him as his wife. And her body, as it is, at its best, is not going to be the airbrushed body of pornographic sites. And when she is 50 it isn’t going to be that either. And if he hasn’t cultivated a kind of pure love for his wife, for herself, as she is, then his eyes are going to be cruising continually beyond what she has to offer him at age 40 and 50 and 60. A woman needs to be able to trust a man. A woman feels profoundly compromised when a man says to her, “No, I really need more than you can offer me.” That is tragic for a man to say that to a woman. So porn is destructive to his capacity to love her for who she is.

And here is the fourth and the last thing I will say about why it is so wrong for a man to do this. Porn is destructive to a man’s soul. His capacity to see God in the purity and the greatness of his glory is shriveled. It is compromised. The soul shrinks to the size and the quality of its pleasures.

Full Transcript

QUESTION: Lindsay writes in to ask: As I considered men who had a desire to marry me, pornography and lust continue to lay strongholds in the lives of my suitors. I am seeking to view men with eyes of grace , but to use wisdom at the same time. I understand that every sin, including lust is the turning away from delight in Jesus to a broken cistern. In light of this, do you believe it is possible for a man to be strong in faith, finding genuine joy in Jesus, and enjoying an overall satisfying relationship with Him, while simultaneously indulging frequently in lust? I believe that every sin could be defeated through the power of the Holy Spirit, but I do not wanna be naive either, since I know this issue is wide and pervasive. I suppose another way to pose my question would be this: Pastor John, should the present presence of pornography  in a man’s life be a marriage deal breaker for a single woman like me?

John Piper:

Wow, I hear at least 2 questions there, and I can’t answer the last one ‘Is it a deal breaker’ until I answer a couple of others. When I hear about this, here are the 4 questions I’m going to have to tackle.

  1. The very question she asked: Can a man get victory over this? Shouldn’t a man be able to live a life of more or less regular triumph, instead of recovering over and over again from pornography?
  2. If he can’t, is it  a deal breaker for her marrying him?
  3. What is pornography? That she didn’t ask. I’ve got to ask it.
  4. And, even more important: Why is it wrong?

So, let me tackle those real quick. Here’s my definition. I’m going to omit homosexual issues. I’m going to omit sex in movies, those are huge issues, but more or less, what men are usually dealing with today is: Involvement with pornography is looking at sexually, or fantasizing about nude women, other than your wife. That’s what I’m talking about. Looking at or fantasizing about nude women. They might be doing all kinds of stuff, or just standing there- (but they are) other than your wife. That’s my definition.

Now, here’s why I think it’s wrong. And, I have to say this: Until the guy feels these things that I’m gonna say right now, about why it’s wrong, it won’t make any sense to him why she would say, „I can’t marry you.” These are so big, I’m gonna wind up saying, „Woman, you are so right! Don’t lower your standards!”
So, here’s why I think it’s wrong:

1. Porn is unloving

It’s unloving to the women involved because it endorses their behaviors and their desires, which are going to destroy them if they don’t repent. It’s unloving to their future husbands. And, when they are confirming in these women a lifestyle of nudity, that is gonna be destructive to those future relationships those women are going to try and have some day. It’s unloving to the parents of those women. I would just ask men: Put yourself in the position of the dad, or the mom. That’s your daughter, how do you feel about that? And here’s this Christian guy, who is endorsing, approving, helping that happen, and confirming that as if he doesn’t give a rip about those parents and their broken heart. Their hearts are broken because of this girl’s behavior, and this guy doesn’t give a rip about whether their hearts are broken. He’s enjoying her breaking their hearts.

2. Porn is adulterous

In other words, it cultivates and pursues mental and physical pleasures that are made by God to flourish in marriage. But they are pursued through women other than our wives. So Jesus has had very strong words to say about that.

3. Porn is destructive to man’s capacity to love a woman purely for herself

He’s training himself. When he does pornography, he’s training his body to need increasingly different, strange erotic situations and bodies. And he’s making it, therefore, harder to be content with the real body  of this woman who is going to be offered to him as his wife. And her body, at its best is not going to be the airbrushed body of these pornographic sites. And when she’s 50, it isn’t going to be that either. And if he hasn’t cultivated a kind of pure love for his wife, for herself as she is, then his eyes are going to be cruising continuously beyond what she has to offer him at 40 and 50 and 60. And a woman needs to be able to trust a man that ‘I am what you have, I have what you need. Don’t have eyes for another woman.’ A woman feels profoundly compromised when a man says to her, „No, I really need more than you can offer me.That’s tragic, for a man to say that to a woman. Porn is destructive to his capacities to love her for who she is. 

4. Porn is destructive to a man’s soul

His capacity to see God in the purity and the greatness of His glory is shriveled, is compromised. The soul tends to shrink to the size and the quality of its pleasures.   If a man constantly says to his soul, „Adapt yourself now to this low, brief, unclean, selfish pleasure. Adapt yourself to this, soul. Get yourself around this, soul. Form yourself around this, soul. It will become that small, and a soul that shrinks like that won’t be able to make much of God, won’t be able to see God, won’t be able to delight in God anywhere near how God should be delighted in, in the glorious pleasures that He offers us in His world and in His word.

So, those are my reasons, I would say, to this woman, and to all the men who may be listening, why it is so wrong for him to pursue pornography. Now, back to her question. She wanted to know: Isn’t it possible for a man to be strong enough in faith, and to have enough joy in Jesus, and have an overall satisfying relationship  to Him, that he could conquer this? Isn’t his indulging frequently in lust an undermining?

My answer is: She’s right. An overall satisfying relationship with Jesus means that Jesus is precious enough, so that we value Him above those 4 reasons. Those 4 reasons that I gave, that porn is wrong become compelling because Jesus is our treasure, not just a doctrine, but is Lord and friend, and Savior and Supreme treasure of our lives, the way He should be

Then, we won’t be continually hating women with our choices to demean them and confirm their destruction. We won’t be continually committing adultery in our heart with those women. We won’t be continually defiling our capacity to love our present and future wives. We won’t be continually shrinking our souls, our ability to save for the glories of God. We won’t, because Jesus is utterly different than that.

A man who continually says, „I embrace all that destruction, I embrace all that evil, I embrace all that uncleanness, I embrace all that idolatry, and that hatred for women is saying something that a woman who is about to marry him better hear loud and clear. So, my answer to her last question ‘Should it be a deal breaker?’ If this man can’t get victory over this, if he is regularly tuning in , I would say, „Yeah, that’s a deal breaker.” Now, I am not a woman, I can’t make this call for myself. I would just say, if I were her I would say, „You strike me as a woman of remarkable grace , not legalism, you strike me as a woman who is striving for a biblical standard, that is not artificial, nor realistic or perfectionistic  standards. I hear grace in your question, I don’t hear brittleness and I would say, „Don’t lower the bar.” I think we’ve lowered the bar too much. We’ve treated men like dogs in heat , rather than men who are created in the image of God, who have the Holy Spirit, whose fruit is love, joy, and self control. And that last one, self control, is usually used in relationship to sexuality. Men are not victims. And these women have a right to expect more from us. And, I would say to her and to the other women: Don’t lower your standards. God is in the process, I believe right now,  in purifying a man’s soul and a man’s body for you.

Also read/view

Sexual Sin: Every Sinful Heart is Prone to Struggle by David Platt

via http://crossmap.christianpost.com
david platt

In a recent sermon on sexual sin, Pastor David Platt touched on the belief that all humans – not only homosexuals – are prone to struggle with different types of sexual sin.

„This is something that every sinful heart is prone to struggle with in some way or another,” Platt said in the sermon.

„If [Christians] roll our eyes and shake our heads when we see the Supreme Court ruling on this case, yet we turn the channels on our TVs to watch the trivialization of sex on shows and advertisements, to surf the Internet to find images in order to satisfy our lusts, to go to movies that glamorize sex … and entertain sexual thoughts and desires outside of our own marriage, then we have missed the entire point.”

Platt also reiterated his belief that biblical marriage consists of a union between one man and one woman.

„All throughout the Bible from cover to cover, sex is only celebrated … in the context of exclusive covenant relationship between a husband and wife,” Platt shared. “Period. There are no exceptions to that.”

In the midst of highlighting highlighting hyper-sexualized American culture, the pastor went on to express the thought that humans tend to set their minds on the flesh as opposed to God.

„According to [secular culture], we’re not human if we can’t please our bodies however we desire, so any attempts to limit sexual expression are seen as oppressive and inhumane,” Platt said. „We set our minds on the things of the flesh, which is hostile to God, and we exchange God’s Word for our experience.”

In a call for sexual purity, Platt asked Christians to be honest about their sexual sins and to pursue Godly accountability partners.

„So much of the power of sin is found in its secrecy,” Platt said. „Guard yourself with godly friendships and Gospel accountability.”

Read the story in its entirety here – http://crossmap.christianpost.com

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