Scrisoarea Alinei Silaghi despre cel care a fost sotul ei, Cristian Silaghi – In Loving Memory of My Dear Husband


In Loving Memory of My Dear Husband – Cristian Silaghi

How do you capture the essence of a man and his 33 years on this earth in a few paragraphs?

My husband, Christian Silaghi, was a man of character and great faith, a devoted husband and father, a loyal brother and friend, a reliable family member, and an honest and hard worker.

He was born in Romania in a large family of 7 siblings and always viewed the world with a positive attitude through his kind and curious blue eyes. From the time he was very young he treated everyone with respect and kindness and always offered a helping hand. This continued throughout his entire life to the very end. In 1998 he immigrated to America but never lost his deep pride and love for his homeland and heritage. He often said that in 2005 his world changed for the better when he married me, the love of his life, and joined my family. And so did mine.

Silaghi Cristian si AlinaHe loved my family and enjoyed spending time together. He fit in beautiful, teasing my sister or niece, helping with computers and cell phones, doing a project with my brother-in-law, or just extending every visit: “just a few more minutes”.

We shared eleven wonderful years together and two beautiful daughters, Christine and Natalie. He was a hands-on father and very involved in the care of our children. He delighted in every moment of parenting his girls – from preparing organic meals to playing games, Friday movie night, and brushing teeth. He just loved being with them.

They feel so lost without him. We all do. He had a compassionate and humble heart and was always willing to generously give of himself and his time to help anyone. Sometimes we would get frustrated because we would miss him and want to spend some of that time with him. But he was always aware of the world and the people around him. Upon finally buying our first home, Christian told me that we were so blessed. In return for our good fortune, we must do more for others. He suggested that every time I prepare a meal, I should make a plate of hot food to take to our neighbors. This was his very last request he made to me as he headed out of door to help our neighbor and good friend, Dr. Tryon. Christian was a gift to all of us. He leaves a legacy of honor, goodness, faith and love.

Until we meet again,

Alina Silaghi, Phoenix, Arizona


Priveghiul va avea loc vineri, 26 august, orele 19:00 (7:00 pm) la biserica „Happy Valley” Christian Church, la adresa 25435 N 15th Ave, Phoenix, AZ 85085. Serviciul de înmormântare va avea loc sâmbătă, 27 august, ora 10:00 dimineaţa, la Arrowhead Memorial Gardens 21000 N 75th Ave, Glendale, AZ 85308.

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  4. Gabriela
    Aug 28, 2016 @ 17:54:23

    Am citit despre moartea acestui frate si trebuie sa recunosc ca nu stiam nimic despre el inainte. E trist sa auzi ca a murit un tanar de 33 de ani si a lasat in urma doua fetite mici si o sotie tanara.
    Poate ca e putin deplasat sa scriu asta tocmai acum cand familia trece prin aceasta mare durere, dar pur si simplu nu am putut sa nu observ cat de egoista este aceasta femeie. L-a iubit pe sotul ei si el s-a simtit foarte fericit de la casatoria lor. Frumos, dar cand o spune ea ca el era ferict, e una, daca o spunea el, era putin diferit. Dar sa trecem de asta: facea parte dintr-o familie cu sapte copii si ea nu spune nimic despre ei, decat ca existau si ei si nici nu stim daca mai exista. Despre durerea lor ce crezi, sarmana sotie indoliata? Barbatul asta nu a crescut in parc intr-un rond de trandafiri, ci a fost crescut si educat de parinti, a avut frati si surori si, din cate inteleg, a trait mai mult necasatorit decat casatorit. Tu crezi ca era foarte fericit cu fratii tai, pe care ii ajuta cu mobilele si programele pe calculator. Sa inteleg din asta ca de cei sase frati ai sai nu il interesa deloc, in timp ce toate nimicurile de care aveau nevoie la un moment dat fratii tai, era de-a dreptul entuziasmat? Trist! Foarte trist! Un om care a murit incercand sa salveze niste vecini, nu cred ca si-a negat familia in felul in care lasi tu sa se inteleaga. Cel putin eu am retinerile mele. Si in timp ce sotiile fac atata caz la moartea sotului, dar dupa un timp se recasatoresc, golul pe care il simte un parinte cand ii moare un copil, nu il poate completa nimeni.


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